mommy maverick

In my journey as a working mom, I’ve come to realize that having a spouse who’s not just there but truly supportive makes all the difference. They’re not just another member of the household; they’re your co-captain, partner in crime, and the secret weapon for success. They help keep the ship sailing smoothly.

So, what is a supportive spouse? A supportive spouse:

• listens, empathizes, and provides emotional support, like a warm hug after a long day. Life gets overwhelming, and work can be stressful, but they remind you that you’re not alone in this crazy balancing act.
• doesn’t just share responsibilities, they actively seek to lighten your load. From managing bedtime routines to doing dishes and laundry, they’re right there, making sure the ship doesn’t sink while you’re at work.
• is your biggest cheerleader. They recognize your career aspirations and encourage you to chase your dreams. They remind you of your worth, celebrate your successes, and motivate you through your failures.
• recognizes the importance of quality time and makes an effort to spend meaningful moments with you and the kids. They don’t make you feel guilty when quality time may be cut short because of work, self-care, or other obligations, rather, they appreciate the time they spend with you.
• adapts and is ready to jump in when needed, ensuring that together, you weather the storm. Life doesn’t always go as planned – work emergencies, sick kids, and unexpected curveballs are all part of the package.
• keeps the romance alive. It’s easy for romance to take a back seat amidst the chaos, but date nights, surprises, and little gestures of love are their secret weapon.

It’s important to note that a partnership is not just about sharing chores; it’s about sharing dreams, goals, and aspirations. A supportive spouse believes in your ambitions and works alongside you to achieve them. They pick up the slack when you’ve had a hard day and have nothing left to give, no questions asked. They listen to you when you ask for help and don’t judge you when you struggle to balance responsibilities at work and at home.

Marriage isn’t always a perfect 50-50 split of responsibilities, especially in today’s world where both spouses often work outside the home. Instead, it’s about teamwork, flexibility, and mutual support. Roles and responsibilities can shift and evolve based on circumstances, and what’s essential is that both spouses contribute their best effort to maintain a healthy and balanced relationship. Marriage means creating a dynamic partnership that adapts to the needs of the family. Ultimately, it’s the strength of the partnership and the willingness to work together that matter more than an exact 50-50 split. So, it’s important that you also take on the role as the supportive spouse – it’s not a one-way street.

My husband is the unsung hero of our household. His support, love, and understanding empowers me to be the best version of myself – both as a mother and a professional. The truth is, I couldn’t do what I do without him by my side. To those of us who are lucky enough to have such spouses, let’s take a moment to express our gratitude. And if you haven’t already, have an open conversation with your spouse about your needs and dreams. Building a strong partnership is a journey, and it’s one worth embarking on together.

In the end, it’s not just about being successful at work, being the best mom, or being the best wife. It’s about finding that beautiful balance, and a supportive spouse is the key ingredient in the recipe for success.

Your Coach,

Kristyn